Retaining First-Time Guests
By: Bill Easum
Getting people in the door the first time isn't easy these days, but getting them to return a second and third time is even more difficult. However, you can do a few things that greatly raise the return rate.
The following is a seven-step response to first-time guests.
We gave each new guest a small potted ivy with a note it that said, "We hope you will nourish your spiritual life just like you need to water this plant daily." And, we included the name of a contact person at the church. Other churches give a mug with the name and mission statement of the church printed on it. Still others give them a bag including the mug, a CD introducing them to the church, and a flyer about new member orientation.
The best church response to first-time visitors I've seen did this: anyone that signed in, family or child or youth in Sunday School or Children's and Youth Church received a Fed Ex package Monday or Tuesday afternoon that included a CD for children, or an appropriate CD for a youth, a CD introducing the adult ministries and leaders of the church, a 25% discount to their bookstore, and invitation to the next Pastor's Gathering, and an assortment of other items. You can be sure any Fed Ex package is going to be opened.
No matter what type of response you choose to do, make sure you do as much as you can. A gift basket with a variety of helpful items is better than just one item. The younger the family, the more likely they will respond to a well-done CD or DVD that introduces them to the church, its leaders, and ministries. Don't scrimp on the gift bag.
In order for people to be able to deliver the gift bag on their way home from church, it will help if you provide color-coded registration cards, one for members and one for visitors. Take up the cards during worship, sort them during worship, and have the gift bag and a map to the home of the guest ready to be picked up by volunteers after worship. They can deliver it on their way home. They are requested not to go inside. Most cities have vendors that provide "key" maps, breaking the city into small segments. These are the maps that are given to the people delivering the gifts.
If you have enough paid staff, have them separate the registration cards for first-timers and put their name by the gift on a table with a map to their home. If you don't have enough staff, then recruit a couple of dedicated members to do the job. If you have only one worship service, someone will have to miss worship this one Sunday; otherwise, people will either have to wait around for the bags to be set out or come back later that day. If there is any way you can pull this off without having them come back, do so.
The goal of this call will vary based on the response on the other end. Some people may be open to an in-home visit; if so, try to get a day and time during the call. This is the most productive way to ensure their return. But, some people may not be open to such a visit. Some may be more open to an email. Others may not be open to any future contact with the church. However, we do know that when the person doing the calling is able to set up an in-home or office appointment (in the first-timer's office), the odds of that person returning to the church increases by 95%.
The original caller should note the receptivity level of the guest with 1 being no future contact other than mailing, 3-5 being email contact, 6-8 being personal and/or email, and 9-10 being the more personal contact, the better. This response should be passed that along to whoever is responsible for follow-up beyond the original contact.
People should not be made to feel as if they have to join the church in order to participate in or lead a ministry. The further we go into the 21st century, the less importance will be given to membership and more importance to participation.
During these three months, it is imperative that the first-time guest meet and become friends with at least five or six people. Without making these connections, the odds of the family or individual will drop out within 18 months. That is why participation beyond worship is crucial.
So, how does your church respond to first-time guests?
Bill Easum is president of 21st Century Strategies, Inc. a full service church consulting group since 1987 whose mission is to equip Christian for global impact, www.churchconsultations.com. He is a consultant, author, ex-pastor, futurist, husband, and father. You can reach him at email@example.com and keep up with him at his blog, www.billeasum.com.